This blog is just a collection of rambling thoughts and memories; a way to share our lives with friends and family. Our family consists of Nick, Trinity, Joseph, Nicholas, Ethan, and Andrew. Not only do the kids out number the parents, the boys far out number the girls. I stand alone. Therefore, I also use this blog as, sometimes, my one tie to sanity. So peruse at your leisure, and sometimes, at your own risk.
Thursday, December 27, 2007
Christmas Morning
Wonderful Christmas
We had a wonderful Christmas. On Christmas Eve, the boys and I decorated some cookies and left some for Santa. Each of the boys were allowed to eat one...the pictures following are of that adventure. The boys went to bed nicely and I was finally able to finish all the wrapping. As you can see by the last picture, the boys hit the mother lode this Christmas. I have really tried to explain to Joey the reason we celebrate Christmas; as we were given the greatest gift when Jesus came to Earth as a new born baby to live among us. It was nice to sing "Happy Birthday, Jesus" with him this year.
Friday, December 21, 2007
Secret Keeper
After showing him the results of the pregnancy test, he kind of freaked out. He is not entirely ready for the idea of adding another little being to the family. Not that he is not happy about it.....it just takes him longer to adjust. I, on the other hand, just get giddy beyond giddy, and can't stop thinking and planning, and playing the "what if" game.
I thought it would be nice to try to wait until the idea of being pregnant took root in both our hearts.... a couple months, maybe, before telling our families. We always rush into telling everybody and have no time to enjoy the news just by ourselves. I also thought that it may make it easier being far away and not having to anybody in the eye.
When Nick called from work in the early afternoon, he said, "When are we going to start telling people?" I was thinking, 'geesh, it's only been a few hours!' So I asked him who he wanted to tell. He said, "I want to tell my Mommy. I want to call her right now!" How can I resist that! I mean, come on! So, of course, I caved and said, "Fine...you call your mom, I'll call my mom, and then you call me back."
So I set about making my phone call. Mom didn't answer. So I left a message and waited on pins and needles. When she finally called back (it really wasn't that long of a wait) I told her the good news and gave her a list of people I wanted to tell personally, before allowing her to spread the news. Next phone call was Aubrey. While I was in the middle of talking to Aubrey, Nick called on our other phone. I told him who I had told already, and he said, "I've called Mom, Angie, Dad, and Grandmama!" He got four calls in in the time it took me to make one and a half! Later, Nick said that he wasn't good at sharing details. I inquired, "Exactly what kind of details are you thinking have to be shared at this point?!?" I know he was thinking of after a baby is born; usually I will tell height, weight, hair and eye color, time of birth, how the labor went. Nick just tells people we have a baby! What a wonderful informer.
Anyway....I did start out with the intention of waiting to spread the good news, but I couldn't be any stronger than a son anxious to tell his mommy!
Thursday, December 20, 2007
Yippee!
For those of you who may have looked at the blog in the last couple hours (before this post) may have seen the addition to the sidebar. I think this is one of the coolest things I have seen. Not only does it count down the days for you, it shows you day by day the miracle of God's creation. Even now, my baby's nerves are developing! And we just found out today! Isn't it amazing how God knows the very number of our days, is intimately involved in every detail from the very moment of conception. By New Year's Eve, my baby's heart will start pumping. Not that it will be able to be heard for several more weeks...but it will be pumping already.
I have been talking on the phone all day, often in the presence of Joey, but we didn't sit down and tell him until Nick got home from work. Nick got to do the honors. He asked Joey to remember when Mommy had Baby Nick in her tummy, and that now Mommy has a new baby in her tummy. First, Joey looked over at me, confused, and shook his head 'no.' Then when I explained that it was very, very tiny, but that it would grow much bigger, and that he would be able to hold the new baby in his arms, he threw his arms in the air and said, "YIPPEE!" I'm glad he is excited, he is such a wonderful big brother. We told Baby Nick, too....but I don't think he understands or cares right now.
I have to go put the boys to bed now, but as I leave I ask one favor of everybody: THINK PINK!!!!
(I need a girl!)
Tuesday, December 18, 2007
For Mom's Medical Advice
"Bitterly Disappointed" Add On
The children's Christmas program will be next Sunday. We will have the morning service to perform it. I felt much better about how it is going after this week's practice. The kids with speaking parts had most of their lines memorized (a far cry better than last week) and the songs were better sung as well. This week, I have to try to find a costume for myself...I'm playing 'Granny', so I need to find an "old lady, hill-billy" dress. I searched through my closet, but I'm fresh out of hill-billy clothes! One of the little girls, Tianna, and I are going to sing a 'solo' together. She has such a sweet voice. I told Tina on Sunday, "I think Granny is going to carry around a Bible....that way she will have her lines close by!" Tina said that Uncle Yule (who she is going to play) will probably have a shovel to carry around that her lines can be taped to the back of! I think we will have a lot of fun, and I know the parents will be busting with pride to see their kids up on stage. At the end, we are going to have a "Precious Moments" nativity...with some of the littler kids. 'Mary' will be played by a cute little four year old girl...I can't wait.
It's hard to imagine that Christmas is just one week away! Joey is getting so excited. He is so sure that Santa is bringing him a Lighting McQueen bed and Lightning McQueen slippers. I can't wait till he wakes up on Christmas morning to find them downstairs waiting for him!
I'm supposed to be in bed right now. Nick put me to bed just after 8:00pm since I couldn't stay awake....but I never sleep for long. So, I got back up at 1:00am and have no idea when I'm going to feel able to sleep again. Hopefully, I will feel like I can sleep before I have to get back up with the boys.
Monday, December 17, 2007
Singing Christmas Tree
Friday night our performance went pretty well, especially for a first performance. Saturday went better...except for the fact that half the mics didn't work. It just so happened that it was the half that I tried to use during my solo! I first picked up the mic in front of me, as I was supposed to, and it wasn't working. So the person to the right of the person to the right of me handed over the mic close to her. So in the middle of reading lines, we are criss-crossing mics, and I'm ending up just shouting the words out anyway. So two mics down. The person right above us, in the next tier up, handed down her mic....which had dead batteries! So then Pastor Gary, who was singing the male part of the solo, handed me his mic from down below, when he was done singing, so that I could sing my portion...then I handed it back down to him so he could do his other part...and for the part where we sing together....I just sang really loud! When the song was over, Pastor handed the mic back up to me to trade mics with the person above me, who hands her mic back down, and I hand it down to Pastor, and he has someone run and get new batteries. Then when the batteries finally get changed, we do the trade all over again. It was a night of music; not only musical voices, but musical mics as well!!
Sunday, Nick dropped the boys and I off at church; me with all my clothes and toiletries needed to get ready for the program later. After church, he picked the boys up, took us all out to lunch and dropped me back off at the church. I still had a couple hours before I needed to be ready for the program, but I volunteered to help make the cookies that we serve with hot chocolate for the audience after each performance. That way, Nick would also have the car to be able to bring the boys to see the Tree for the evening performance. The afternoon performance had a few minor glitches with the sound. Oh, and the girl next to me just about threw up after the first song, so I vehemently requested she abandon the Tree in a hurry. Other than that, it went well....mics were all working at least. But apparently, some of the lights on the Tree weren't working, again. After the afternoon program, the choir had some cheese and crackers, fruit and veggies for 'dinner' and got ready to do it all over again. I finally got to see my boys, whom I really missed all day. Apparently, Baby Nick had a very difficult day, walking around the house crying, looking for Mommy. That made me feel worse (and better, knowing he missed me too.) I would have to say that Sunday's evening performance was the best of them all. It was so nice to see my boys, way in the back. I couldn't see them real well, but I knew where they were, and occasionally the lights were just right to be able to catch a glimpse of Joey dancing all over the place! He was so cute. By the end, Baby Nick, who had only had a half hour nap, was way past his limit, so Nick took them out to the car to wait for me to be done. It wasn't more than two minutes when Baby Nick was out like a light, and didn't wake up until I got him out of his car seat at home.
Needless to say, it was a very long and tiring weekend. It would be great to be able to sleep all day...but the duties of being wife and mother never stop to give you a break, so I'm still going. Sometimes just barely functioning, but at least I am functioning at some minimal level.
Hopefully this year, they will be able to make a decent video of the performance and I will be able to get a copy to whomever wants it.
Bitterly Disappointed
1. Where would you go to hear Silver Bells? Every street corner.
2. Who was it that danced with the silk hat on his head? Frosty the Snowman
3. Where would you find Reindeer Paws? Up on the house top.
4. What did the cattle do to wake the poor baby? Lowed. (The cattle are lowing...)
5. When did I see those three ships? On Christmas day in the morning.
6. What size were those Kings of the Orient? Wee. (as in, "WE three kings..." It's a play on words.)
7. What is it that helps to make the season bright? Turkey and mistletoe.
8. Who wants a pair of hop-a-long boots, and a pistol that shoots? Barney and Ben
9. Who still wants a hula hoop? Alvin
10. Who kept time to the drum? The ox and lamb
11. Who, and what color was the animal that gave the hay to pillow his head? The cow, all white and red.
12. Where do the hopes and fears of all the years meet? In Thee tonight.
13. What would keep me warm all the way home? If you really held me tight.
14. What does Susie want? A dolly.
15. Why does the child want his two front teeth? To wish you a Merry Christmas.
16. What was the other reindeer's name? Olive
17. What was the horse in Jingle Bells named? Bob
18. When will I finally go? Not till I get some. (Figgy pudding)
19. What color is Christmas without you? Blue
20. What is the parson in the meadows name? Brown
21. Where does one go a wassailing? Among the leaves so green.
22. ABCDEFGHIJKMNOPQRSTUVWXYZ? Noel (no 'L')
Too bad nobody played. Now I get to keep the fabulous prize I had ready for the winner. I guess I can thank you for that!
Friday, December 14, 2007
Singing Christmas Tree Starts Tonight
Hope you have a great weekend. I may feel like I have more time to think of something other than the Tree once this weekend is over. I may even feel like blogging again!
Monday, December 10, 2007
Visible, Tangible Proof Of God's Love
Well, I have a reputation for making good desserts. Nick knows, probably best of all, that I also am very picky when it comes to presentation. If there is something wrong with how it looks, or if there may be something wrong with the way it was cooked, I would rather throw it away than bring it out in public. I would be mortified.
While I was making the cheesecakes, I thought something went wrong (I'll get to what in a second). As I tried to find a way to correct it, I couldn't find evidence that something did go wrong...so I began to think that I possibly could have imagined it since it was so late and I was very tired. I was mixing the batter and came to adding the eggs. The recipe calls for eight eggs, added one at a time, at the very end...just before adding the pumpkin. At this point the mixing bowl is very full. In fact, it is so full that I have to pour it into the biggest serving bowl I have before adding in the pumpkin so that there is enough room. As I was adding the fourth egg, I thought I saw a big piece of shell fall into the batter. I stopped the mixer at once (the last thing I needed was for it to be beaten into lots of little pieces). I had no idea how I was going to search for this fragment of shell...I couldn't very well dunk my whole hand in to feel around for it, though I was extremely tempted to do so as I couldn't find any shell. I decided that after adding all the eggs, I would pour the batter slowly from the mixing bowl to the serving bowl to see if I could see the shell that way. I didn't see it. That is when I began to think that I possibly may have imagined it falling in in the first place. So I made the cheesecakes and brought one with me to the Ladies Christmas Tea.
There was a lot of food and desserts at the tea, and just under half of my cheesecake was eaten. Those who had some had rave reviews of it...but I was pleased that I could bring some home for leftovers. I had some later that night and the boys and I shared some Saturday before picking Daddy up. Still I found no egg shell, and thankfully had heard of no one at the tea having chomped an egg shell. Then Nick and I each had a piece after lunch yesterday (while the boys were sleeping, so we didn't have to share) and halfway through my piece....you guessed it! I found the egg shell...in my own piece!
If that is not tangible proof of God's love, I don't know what is!!
Saturday, December 08, 2007
Christmas Carol Quiz
1. Where would you go to hear Silver Bells?
2. Who was it that danced with the silk hat on his head?
3. Where would you find Reindeer Paws?
4. What did the cattle do to wake the poor baby?
5. When did I see those three ships?
6. What size were those Kings of the Orient?
7. What is it that helps to make the season bright?
8. Who wants a pair of hop-along boots, and a pistol that shoots?
9. Who still wants a hula hoop?
10. Who kept time to the drum?
11. Who and what color was the animal that gave the hay to pillow his head?
12. Where do the hopes and fears of all the years meet?
13. What would keep me warm all the way home?
14. What does Susie want?
15. Why does the child want his two front teeth?
16. What was the other reindeer's name?
17. What was the horse in Jingle Bells Named?
18. When will I finally go?
19. What color is Christmas without you?
20. What is the parson in the meadows name?
21. Where does one go a wassailing?
22. ABCDEFGHIJKMNOPQRSTUVWXYZ?
Good luck. For the winner who has the most correct answers, I have a fabulous prize. But you have to come up to Alaska to get it!! Ha ha ha. Look forward to seeing the winner!
Daddy's Coming Home!!
Hope everyone has a great week next week. Sorry, Mom, that your son had to leave again...but I sure am glad he's coming home.
Friday, December 07, 2007
Cute Quotes, And Such
First, this has been a very long week. Nick is out of town on business. He's been out of town before, but this time, his business took him home. He is able to take advantage of the trip to see our families...most of whom he hasn't seen in over a year. Now, most of you know this already...as this is Friday and he has already seen everybody at least once. I'm very happy for him...but I'm jealous as well. There is nothing I want more than to be able to come home and see everybody. The opportunity to go to Portland visits our door and I am left out. There is something bitterly disappointing about that. At least one of us gets to see loved ones around the holidays. With Nick being gone, it makes my time seem to expand. My days seem longer, with more to do in them. And this week seems to be the worst. Monday, I was called about 4:30pm, asking if I wanted to meet with a group of ladies at a new chocolate coffee shop to visit. That sounded great to me; adult conversation, and with other women, to boot. So after Dakota went home, I packed the boys in the car and went to spend time with grown-ups. Of course, by the time we left, it was 7pm and the kids hadn't even eaten yet. So I had to rush them home, make them something for dinner and get them to bed.
Tuesday was choir night number one. Again, I packed the boys in the car, with a diaper bag full of toys and books. The boys are very well behaved when we are at church and have become a favorite with most people. (I love that...if I can't watch my family adore my kids, at least I can still watch people at church.) We got there a little early, and for the first ten minutes, or so, Joey ran back and forth singing a song about the days of the week. Once we started singing, the boys just ran around, in and out of everybody, and generally made everyone 'ooh' and 'aah'. I was very proud of how well they listened to me and obeyed. However, it takes so much out of me having to sing AND run after the boys at the same time. I was exhausted by the end of practice. Then there is the issue of not getting home until 9pm, well past bed time.
Wednesday, I didn't have anywhere I needed to be, so we had a normal day at home. But on Thursday, it was another choir night. Having just been through one successful, but tiring, choir night, I wasn't quite ready for another. Neither were the boys. They still did very well, but the worked me a bit harder than last time. They listened a little less, and did things they shouldn't a little more. For the most part they were still really well behaved and still adored. But I was even more tired than on Tuesday. We still didn't get home until just after 9pm. So far, that makes three out of four days that the boys were up late. After I got the boys into bed, I still had to make pumpkin cheesecakes; one for the Ladies Christmas Tea, and one for Nick's Christmas potluck at work next week.
I love our oven and am so thankful that we have one. That being said, our oven doesn't seem to be as effective as it should be. The cheesecake recipe makes two cakes, and they are supposed to be baked at 400 for twenty minutes, 200 for an hour, and then cool slowly in a turned off oven for another hour to prevent cracking. With our defective oven, it took two and a half hours at 200! By the time they were done enough, it was 2:00 in the morning and I was not about to stay up until 3:00am just to let them cool for another hour. I figured, if they cracked, I could just smother them with whipped cream and no one know the difference. As it was, they didn't crack, but I was still up way too late making them.
Tonight is the Ladies Christmas Tea, which starts at 7:00pm. Of course, that is just one half hour before Nick's bedtime, so it will be yet another late night for the boys. Four out of five....not a good record. Unfortunately, the boys don't understand the concept of sleeping in (not to mention that I have Dakota during the week) so I will have no sleep again tonight. Oh well...it has still been a good week of fellowship with the ladies at church.
Baby Nick is in one of my favorite 'stages' of backing up to sit on my lap. When I sit on the floor, Baby Nick will turn from wherever he is in the room and start backing up to sit in my lap. It is too cute. He also backs up to go down the stairs, as he should, but he will drop down to his knees all the over at our bedroom door and crawl backwards several feet before finally reaching the stairs. I was showing him how to scrunch his nose up the other day. He made an immediate attempt...although he either open and closes his mouth, or blinks his eyes trying to copy the nose scrunch. He loves to 'sing' "If You're Happy and You Know It". He claps his hands along with the song. And just yesterday he started something new. On the part that says, "if you're happy and you know it, then your face will surely show it", you are supposed to put your fingers on your cheeks and twist your hands. Baby Nick gets his fingers up on his temples and scratches! Oh, can he get any cuter!
When Baby Nick has "done his duty", so to say, you know it right away. This kid packs a wallop! The funny thing is, you get ready to change him, expecting a big mess to go with the big smell and find the teeniest, tiniest turd. (Sorry for the TMI, but I am leading up to something.) When I start smelling him, I'll ask him, "Are you stinky?" He'll give me a big smile and wave his hand in front of his nose. So then I will tell him it is time to change his diaper, so he will walk a small circle around the rug and find a place to lay down! It is so darling! (I had to find a new word other than 'cute' and 'adorable')
Joey has such a vocabulary and repertoire of phrases. The other day, he saw me crying (probably over a sad movie...or a Hallmark commercial) and he came up and gave me a big hug and said, "It's okay, Mommy. I won't let anything happen to you." He's so protective. Whenever Baby Nick gets in trouble and starts crying, Joey comes over holding his hand out, wanting to comfort and protect his brother from getting hurt. Or he'll ask me something like, "Do you want to play with me? Say sure." How can I resist that? The other day, I was in the kitchen getting lunch or dinner, or doing the dishes....Joey came in and said, "T O Y spells toy." I was shocked. This year, when talking about Christmas presents, we have to spell things out, but now we have to be careful about that as well. Joey knows that Daddy's favorite color is blue and Mommy's is green. His changes everyday. He'll say, "My favorite color is pink today." The other day, he was reading my library book, "Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Cafe". This is how the story went while he was reading, while moving his finger left and right over the pages, "Happy Birthday to Grandma Mary and Aunt Angie are my friends and I'm going to the beach." Not everything he says is cute. Well, maybe cute, but not acceptable. When he is mad at the injustice of the world around him, (you know, like not getting his way all the time) he will mumble something and then say, "My entire life!" With his attitude and the way he says it, you can just tell he is saying something like, "This is the most horrible day in my entire life." or "I have never met such an awful Mom in my entire life!" Or, when he is getting in trouble, and Mommy is not being as controlled as she should be, he'll yell out at me, "I'm stake of your ploblem!" (Translation: I'm sick of your problem) It is so completely disrespectful that I don't laugh....in front of him, at least.
Joey was sitting on my lap at the desk the other day and was playing with a paper clip. He asked me if it was okay to play with it and I told him he could as long as he stayed in my lap. Then he asked if he could put it in his pocket. Again, I told him that would be okay as long as he was in my lap. Then he said, "You can say that again!" Oh, I laughed so hard. I'd never heard him say that before.
Well, I'm sure this post has taken well over an hour to complete (along with all the interruptions) and the boys are falling to pieces. There has been no morning nap for the little ones, and Joey is effected most when Daddy is gone...so he is being a bit difficult. Have a good day.
Hurry home, Daddy! We love and miss you sooooo much.
Tuesday, December 04, 2007
Five Spoons
After lunch, I put the boys down for a nap like I do every day. Sometimes they take a fairly good nap, giving me time to both relax and accomplish something. Other days, like today, they don't give me much time. Since I choose to do my relaxing first (I know I shouldn't, but when else am I going to get the chance...especially with my husband out of town), the boys were up when I got around to feeling up to getting something done. The most pressing job needed was a good sweeping under the table. Joey loves to help me sweep and usually holds the dustpan for me. Baby Nick does his best to stay out of my way, and if I'm quick enough, I can keep him out of the pile of dirt. Today, I used the broom to "sweep" the leftovers off the booster seat that Baby Nick and Dakota use. I saw something sticking out from under the booster seat, and when I got close, I could tell it was a spoon! Since I push the chair right up to the table, I don't use the tray that comes with the booster. So there is a hole where the "peg" of the tray hooks into. Baby Nick is fond of stuffing food down there, so it was not much surprise for me to find one of my spoons down there. After pulling one out, I felt a second one down there. Finally, I tilted the chair over, lifting the booster up a little (not wanting to have to unlatch the booster altogether) and a total of FIVE, count them, FIVE spoons fell out! I couldn't believe it. I will have to get in the habit of checking the chair every time Nick eats with silverware.
Oh, he cracks me up!